Your first point.
I never got any damsel vibe from her. Just before she left she used her power and saw something that made her go to that town and take up teaching so she could be there to do ... something... (i do not know what) to Grimm.
What did George know? She knew he was there. She knew that he would at least WANT to kill her (eventually) and that he did kill other teachers when he was through with them.
She used her powers (i do not know how, evidently she has some Serious Power in her that she does not regularly use) to make Grimm Think that he killed her and walked away. It was powerful enough that when he came back he did not care that the blood was gone and he could hear her crying in the background. Why did he walk away? She made him. She put the thought into his head as if it was his own.
The real thing that makes me say WTF is the "no one is more important than the greater balance" (not an exact quote) thing and the fact that she is "going to do everything in her power to change what she belives will happen".
Is she sacrificing Cal to "protect balance in the world" and bring back the Auphe? (or at least a series of half-breeds that will become full auphe eventually) Is she trying to bring back the auphe to hurt the populations of the "supernatural" creaturs on the earth? or is she sacrificing Cal to kill the potential Auphe return? (and protect the world from the auphe)
George is playing a very long term game i can't figure out.
pro Cal? anti-Cal? Cal-Neutral?
pro Cal = She MAY have helped him find a path to keep both his humanity and his auph .. ity .. at the same time. but that is some Serious space time manipulation. i do not know if its possible.
anti Cal = Cal seriously disrupted the balance of good/evil in the world when he took out the auph (with a nuke WOOTS!) and she sees it as her personal duty to restore balance (aka the auph) to the world even if she has to destroy Cal to do it.
Cal nuetral = She is either trying to restore the auphe to the world or destroy them (its hard to tell them apart just yet). She does not want to hurt Cal but unfortunately the only way to (save or destroy the auphe) restore balance is to use Cal very badly and cause him a great deal of pain.
Is she doing one of those three? or is there another option i can't see yet?
lets see ...
The Cal/George relationship. They obviously both love each other very deeply. The True Love At First Sight kind of love. Deep and abiding. When i firt read about them i was in the "she love you you duphus, go get some!" boat. Later in ther series i realised something. George will have to change drastically to make that relationship work. My thought was "If i am in a relationship with a girl I want her to put ME first (not world peace, saving the fruit fly or the drastically plummiting morals of modern america. ME FIRST. selfish i know but love can be at least a little selfish in a way). If George had to make a choice between Cal and peace in the mid-east she would pick peace in the mid-east instead of Cal. Cal could never be first in her list of priorities. If she gets to the point where she can say "screw the mid east, I want to save Cal FIRST!" she will have a starting poing for their relationship. I do not know if she changed after she did as cal asked and looked at their future but if all i can go by is what we saw her say and do in previous books then she is no where near ready to put Cal First in her life.
I don't think Grimm loved her. I think she was an interesting person to him that taught him a few lessons that he eventually (at least he thought that he ) killed.
well.. i have typed a book now and vented a little bit hopefully without being too far out there.
PS: its hard to find a good forum strictly about ONE set of books where people can discuss every nuance and find all of the secret goodies hidden in the pages (forshadowing, aftershadowing conspiricies I LOVE EM!) The Jim Butcher forums about the Dresden Files is Awesome and i was hoping to find a second home with the Leandros series. I found here by random google searches and stubborn desire to find someplace to talk about Cal...
Thank you for keeping this place alive. Hopefully more people will wonder around and stick to the forums.
Finally, before i go to bed ..
Thanks for responding